The Importance of Relationships in the Lower Class

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Depending on the socio-economic class of a person, their top priorities will change. For instance, in the middle class, education and financial security are very important. In the upper class, who a person “knows” is important. For the lower class relationships are extremely valuable.

The lower class values entertainment, cash and relationships. They live in the moment because the future is always a shaky thing. This a primary part of the educator, Ruby Payne’s, teachings. Dr. Payne suggests that our priorities are defined by our station in life. In the lower class, the people in one’s life are extremely important because they are a resource.

When defining poverty, Payne says that it is measured by the extent that people do without resources. Resources are more than money. They include transportation, education, health care, and many of the very basic things needed to succeed in life. If a person has lived in poverty for generations, then that person has learned that he needs people he can rely on, and he also knows his people must rely on him, too.

In the lower class, anyone with a car is a valuable resource. So is anyone with cash in his pocket. Poor people don’t have good credit because they have nothing to back it with. They live paycheck to paycheck, and sometimes that means living on a relative’s paycheck. There isn’t much room to be materialistic, although it isn’t unusual to see a person in the lower class wearing expensive shoes or clothes. More than anything, it just means that person had the cash for something nice. Those clothes may also attract the right relationships.

 

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The Middle Class Lifestyle is Changing

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If an economic crisis lasts long enough, people’s core values may begin to change. In the middle class, people learn to get a good education, buy a good home, and save their money for retirement. Much of the driving factor for success is about the future. These values come from generations of people who usually stay in the same economic class as their parents.

Today, those values are shifting back to an old-fashioned way of living. During the Great Depression, class was a concept on the brink. Even the wealthy suffered financially, but most people regained their social status as the country recovered. Americans still had hopes and dreams for a brighter future, but the practical approach to conserving resources meant that the middle class shifted to a cautious handling of money. For four generations, saving money has been a key part of the middle class lifestyle.

However, somewhere along the way, the middle class became enamoured with the economic boom of the 1990′s, and people began to hedge their futures against easy access to credit. Now it’s all come crashing down, and the attraction to materialistic things like big homes, luxury cars, and expensive trips has caused the middle class to pay attention to the wisdom of earlier generations.

The middle class lifestyle is once again a practical approach to living where people use cash to buy the extra “luxury” items. Practical cars are back in favor, and real estate sales are at a stand still. Once again, the middle class lifestyle is changing back to a practical philosophy that emphasizes education, practical houses and cars, and saving money.

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